Why a Well-Planned Holiday Budget Can Still Come Up Short

Mark and Elena thought they had planned well for the holidays. They had a family trip scheduled to visit Elena’s parents, gifts to buy, and a Christmas dinner to host when they got home. Before the season got busy, they sat down and set a budget for all of it: about $6,200.

That number included the cost of four plane tickets, their gift list, hosting a holiday meal, and a cushion for smaller expenses. 

But after all the gifts were opened and holiday meals were eaten, the total was closer to $7,200. Where had the extra $1,000 gone, and what went wrong with their plan?

The Hidden Costs Inside a Holiday Budget

Holiday budgets usually start with the expenses that are easiest to see in advance. Gifts go on the list. So do flights, if you are traveling, along with the cost of a big meal or party.

The problem is that those visible purchases come with other expenses that are harder to plan for. Airfare is only one part of a trip. Checked bags, airport parking, meals on travel days, transportation after you land, and spending while you are visiting family—none are huge expenses on their own, but they add up.

Hosting works the same way. Christmas dinner may start with the main meal, but it can also include extra groceries, drinks, breakfasts for guests, paper goods, and another store run when something runs out.

Mark and Elena had budgeted for the flights and the meals, but not for everything the trip or hosting family in their home required.

Plans Often Change After the Budget Is Set

Not every holiday expense is foreseeable. Some years, a relative decides to visit after all. Another gathering gets added to the calendar. You need gifts for people you had not expected to see. The kids want to do something with cousins who are in town. 

All of these are reasonable expenses, but they aren’t easy to anticipate and plan for.

For Mark and Elena, this looked like purchasing a few extra gifts, another family activity, and several extra meals as relatives came through town. 

Start With Last Year’s Real Numbers

When you sit down to plan your holiday budget, you’ll probably remember last year’s $1,400 expense for airline tickets and the larger gifts. You’re less likely to remember the $75 you spent shipping gifts to relatives out of town, restaurant meals during your trip, or tips for your postal carrier and other service providers. A better starting point for your holiday budget is what you actually spent last year, not just the big-ticket items you remember paying for. 

Begin by looking over bank and credit card statements from roughly November through January. Pull out the expenses connected to the holidays, including the smaller ones that are easy to forget. Then separate the expenses you could reasonably expect to repeat from the ones that were truly unusual. Next, think ahead to the upcoming holiday season and consider any other expenses you’re fairly confident you’ll have.

For Mark and Elena, that exercise gives them a much more realistic idea of how much they need to budget for this year. Now they have actual numbers to work from and can decide if they want to budget the same amount for the coming year or if they want to scale back on some expenses. They also can begin saving for holiday expenses much earlier in the year to help reduce the impact on their December and January cash flow. 

Spread the Cost Across the Year

Even if $7,200 fits comfortably within the annual household budget, paying most of it in November and December can put pressure on cash flow. Charging the expenses to a credit card may move some of that pressure into January, but it doesn’t solve the problem.

One way to prepare earlier is with a sinking fund. A sinking fund is simply money you set aside over time for a specific expense you know is coming. People use them for things like property taxes, insurance premiums, vacations, or home repairs. The same idea can work for holiday spending.

If Mark and Elena decide that $7,200 is a realistic budget, setting aside about $600 a month for 12 months would cover it. If they start later, they can divide the amount by the number of months remaining and adjust accordingly.

That changes the timing of the expense. Instead of relying on a few months of income to absorb most of the holiday spending, they build the cost into their cash flow throughout the year. By the time the larger expenses arrive, most of the money is already set aside.

Turn This Year’s Spending Into Next Year’s Plan

A stronger holiday budget starts with the full cost of the holiday you actually plan to have. Once that number is clear, you can make better decisions about what to spend, what to change, and how early to start setting money aside.

Looking back, Mark and Elena realized that their overspending wasn’t caused by a lack of self-control, but because their budget had only accounted for the expenses that were easy to predict. Reviewing what they actually spent gave them a much better starting point for the next year. They could see what the holidays had really cost, decide which parts they wanted to repeat, where they might scale back, and how much they wanted to set aside ahead of time. And once they started treating holiday spending as an ongoing expense rather than a one-time December event, it got much easier to manage financially. 

If you want holiday spending to be less of a shock to your budget, give us a call. We’d be happy to help you work it into your year-round cash flow and savings plan.

John J. Diak, CFP® is the Principal & Client Wealth Manager at Oatley & Diak, LLC in Parker, Colorado. He assists clients through many difficult lifestyle changes such as business downturns, retirement planning, divorce, the death of a spouse, and family estate issues among others. Oatley & Diak, LLC is a family-run registered investment advisory (RIA) firm that provides clients with investment management and financial planning services in a hands-on, intimate environment. Learn more about them at oatleydiak.com.

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